Let Her Be a Princess Today

I know this is different than what I usually post, but I thought I would share it anyway.

This is a poem I wrote called "Let Her Be a Princess Today".

Now I don't write poetry. The last poem I wrote was probably for school, and only because I had to. So please don't judge its lameness!

Your baby girl arrived today

You fall in love in the same old way

Fingers and toes, ruffles and bows

Hold her like a princess today

One good night's sleep is all that you pray

She treats every night like its day

Counting sheep, please go to sleep

Remember she's a princess today

Toddling in that familiar way

All she wants to do is play

Crayons and bugs, cuddles and hugs

Treat her like a princess today

Here she comes, you best make way

She wants to dance in the ballet

Spin and dance, a graceful stance

Dress her like a princess today

Her heart might lead her astray

Pull her close and she will push you away

Boys and cars, dancing in bars

Remind her she's a princess today

Getting ready in a cloud of hair spray

She's about to give her heart away

Vows and love, a gift from above

Let her be a princess today

Give you little princess a big hug today.

- M

The Adventures of Porch Kitty

About three weeks ago, a friend of mine posted on Facebook that there was a pregnant cat living on her porch. She was worried the kittens would be born in the bushes, so she was going to call animal control.

So, me having the tender heart that I do, I offered to have her stay with us until the kittens were weaned.

Thus began a long three weeks of waiting and watching... and more waiting...

Of course, this morning while I was out, the kittens were born. She had given birth to six beautiful kittens, and she couldn't be more proud. She rolled over to show them off and even pushed one towards me. They were so small and soft and squeaky!

So here is a picture of "PK" and her six little fluff balls.

UPDATE: I miscounted and there are in fact EIGHT little jelly beans in there. And they are A-DOR-ABLE!!!

You can read more about PK's latest adventures as a mama here and here.

Things Men Don't Say Enough to Their Wives

1. Thank you.

2. What do you think?

3. You are my best friend.

4. You are right.

5. I miss you.

6. You are beautiful.

7. You are an amazing wife/mother.

8. I forgive you.

9. You are all I need.

10. I am proud of you.

- M

PS: Check out my other blog post, Things We Don't Say Enough To Our Husbands.

Things We Don't Say Enough to Our Husbands

1. Thank you.

2. You make me feel safe.

3. You are my best friend.

4. You are right.

5. I need your help.

6. You are handsome.

7. Let me help you.

8. I forgive you.

9. You make me happy.

10. I am proud of you.

- M

PS: Check out my other blog post, Things Men Don't Say Enough To Their Wives.

How to Feel More Confident

The original name of this post was going to be "How To Feel Sexier" but I really don't like the connotation behind the word "sexy" nowadays.

So, instead, I am going to write about how to be more confident about your body, your personality and just yourself in general. This post is directed at women, but that doesn't mean it isn't also helpful for men. (Some of it, obviously not all of it.)

1. Laugh more. Watch a funny movie, look at silly pictures, laugh with friends.

2. Dance. You don't have to necessarily go out with friends, you can play music and dance around your kitchen while you're cooking or baking. Which leads me to my next one...

3. Bake. Cookies, cakes, brownies, muffins. Bake up a storm. Distribute your baked goods to friends and family. Try not to over-indulge but don't skimp out. Eat a cookie!

4. Move. Run, walk, ride your bike. You don't even have to work up a sweat. Just get your muscles working. Get moving.

5. Pamper. Paint your nails, get a massage, wax your legs. Go to a spa or stay home. Make your own facial. Have some friends over to paint each other's nails.

6. Cut your hair. Try something completely different or even just get a few inches trimmed. Get bangs. Do something crazy. Dye it a different colour. Whatever you want. Its your hair!

7. Drink. No, not alcohol. Try to limit your alcohol and soft drink intake. Drink lots of water and pure juices. Make you own all-natural smoothies using your blender.

8. Friends. Spend your time with people who make you feel good about yourself. If you feel awful about yourself every time you are around someone, don't hang out with them. It's as simple as that.

9. Dress up. Don't be afraid to over-dress, as long as you keep it classy. This means skip the thigh-high slits and ultra-low v-necks. Heels to me are a no-brainer. But if you don't like heels or roll your eyes at them, wear flats.

10. Try something new. Take that new yoga class. Buy that outfit. Go to a different gym. A small change in your routine can make a big difference.

And my most important tip is: Don't rely on other people's comments to make yourself feel good. Realize that you are beautiful, worthwhile and strong.